Does lookmaxing actually make men more attractive to women?

If you want to maximize your looks: eat food, stay relatively lean, and go to the gym. Other than that, you're going to create a narcissistic personality where you're self-obsessed, and no woman is going to find that attractive whatsoever. A man this dialed-in is actually in competition with women to see who is the prettiest, and no woman wants to be in competition with a man over who has the prettiest face and bone structure.

Women are beautiful. Men are supposed to be rugged and look strong. Your wife wants confidence that you can defend her and that you carry yourself like a man. And the height stuff: I'm legitimately five foot six, and I've never cared in my whole life that I was short. The idea that a high-profile hat will add a mystical two inches so you're more attractive is insanity.

A good, healthy, confident man is just being himself. If you try to bamboozle women by hiding your neurotic insecurities, every woman will see through it. She will see you as insecure, self-absorbed, and neurotic, and those are not attractive qualities. What do women find attractive? Self-confidence: you carry yourself as you are, you place your value in your relationship with God, and you don't derive your value from how you look or how much money is in your bank account. All of that breeds a person begging for other people's affirmation, and honestly, it's just sad.